Byron Katie on Love, Sex, and Relationships It has been a life’s work to make our partner wrong. Then when we enter inquiry, we lose. It’s a tremendous shock. And it turns out to be […]
My Mother Needs a Dog #FBF “My mom needs to adopt a dog,” this woman proclaims. She seems sure of it. But when she questions the thought, her relationship with her mother changes, and laughter […]
A young woman is heartbroken because she believes that her boyfriend gave up on her. She describes being on a plane and hearing a song that she once sang to him. In that moment, she […]
Melissa from Texas feels violated when she believes that her ex-husband read her journals. After questioning her belief, she notes that she violates herself with her constant fear, and by putting herself in situations that […]
Byron Katie on Love, Sex, and Relationships Marry yourself and you have married us. We are you. That’s the cosmic joke. Byron Katie What are your thoughts?
Carmella from Atlanta lost her temper with close friends and made them leave her home. She asks, “How do I get over this without forgiveness and without any accountability from them?” Byron Katie says, […]
Byron Katie on Love, Sex and Relationships The voice within is what I’m married to. All marriage is a metaphor for that marriage. My lover is the place that an honest yes or no comes […]
In this intimate session between a man and a woman, we see the struggles of two people in love and how they deal with control. Jason honestly expresses his anger and frustration, and Ellie hear […]
A recovering alcoholic does The Work on her beliefs about her daughter’s lack of forgiveness. With the help of Byron Katie’s patient and incisive questioning, she comes to see that although the alcohol is out […]
Flash Back Friday to Katie doing the work with a young woman about a situation with her Mother where she felt shamed. Find a Judge-Your-Neighbor worksheet, here.
This video makes it startlingly clear what happens when we believe our stressful thoughts and how, in all innocence, we create our own suffering. The young man doing The Work with Katie shows remarkable courage […]
A woman has been upset for six and a half years because the father of her children hasn’t paid child-support. Watch as a wife and mother finds that she has the perfect husband and father […]
“If my partner has a flaw, who is believing that?” Byron Katie says. “Where’s the flaw? If I’m the one seeing it, I am its creator.” Katie offers a personal example of how we project […]
A woman is devastated because her fiance has called off their wedding, calling her a whore. Through inquiry, the confusion about who was clinging to the past is cleared. When she discovers what actually happened […]